Before/After: Living Room

I can’t believe it’s already the fourth week of our Before/After fun! For those of you who haven’t been following along, to celebrate two years of being in our house I’m comparing what the house looked like when we toured it with what it looks like now. I’ve already shown you the Den & Laundry, the Bathrooms, and the Kitchen.

Today we are going to see the room where our family spends the most time, our living room.

When we toured our home for the first time it was quite obvious that kids did not live in the house. Check out the living room, it’s SO white and beige and a bit sterile.

Living Room C - 2012

Living Room - 2012

It seemed like they didn’t use this room, like maybe it was their ‘fancy sitting room’ or something. Their TV was in the den, so they certainly didn’t kick off their shoes and curl up in the white loveseat to watch American Idol or anything. It pretty much looked like they had just staged the room  so that unimaginative buyers would walk in and say, “OH, THIS is where you would put the living room!”

Living Room B - 2012

Well, if I can say one thing about what our living room looks like now, it’s definitely lived in.

Living Room - 2014 c

I was having a hard time photographing the room because the snow outside the windows was making everything bright and ghosty. Except, when I photographed it at night it was more dark and moody then in person. So just use your imagination a little.

Living Room - 2014 b

Even though the color looks a bit different in the comparison pictures, we didn’t change the wall color at all. It was already a nice neutral, so I didn’t see any reason to re-paint. We had purchased our big teddy bear of an L-shaped couch a few months before we moved because we got an AWESOME deal on it and pretty much fell in love with it as soon as we lowered our butts down for the first time. Luckily, it fit in the space with enough room for a walkway on the right side. The mini fireplace space heater (under the frame wall) also came from our old house.

Living Room - 2014

Almost everything else has been purchased in the last couple years. The leather ottoman was ordered from Overstock.com. The TV stand is from World Market and I LOVE how hefty it is with worn dark wood. I got the cute guy at a bar one night.

Living room - frame wall

Most of the frames on the frame wall are from JoAnn’s and the pictures are special events throughout our life together. The fantastic Ollie painting is from Lily at It’s a Dome Life. The “D” is from a World Market clearance sale.

Living Room - 2014 play area

Pretty much the entire area behind the couch is Jack’s play area. Many of his toys are hidden in this shelving system from Target. However, the bigger stuff like his workshop and truck hang out along the back wall of the room.

Like I said before, this room is the most used room in the house. The play area is right next to the kitchen, so it’s easy to keep an eye on Jack while cooking or eating at the table. The entire room is kid-proof with furniture anchors on both the shelving unit and the television.

Living Room Details - 2014

Here’s a close up of some of the room details. I switch out accessories every so often when I see something fun at Homegoods or Target, but these are the ones that have hung around for a while. The tan pattern pillow is from Target, the circle one was a pillow case from Pottery Barn that I turned into a throw pillow, and the teal pillow came from Homegoods. The fun teal patterned lampshade is from Target. The bottom left picture is a close up of our brown leather ottoman from Overstock.com. The elephant table is from World Market from probably 10 years ago – it is a dark brown wood trunk with little metal elephants hammered into it.

What still needs to change?
There are a few too many toys along the back wall of the living room. I change them out regularly so that we aren’t buried by toys, but it still needs some purging. The large ride-in truck will be moved outdoors as soon as it warms up a bit more. I also have plans to do an upstairs playroom in the near future that will store some of the bigger items. I intend on keeping a small play area in the living room, because it’s a great way to keep Jack entertained while we are downstairs… I just want to downsize it a little bit.

Other than weeding out some toys, I don’t anticipate many more changes to the living room. I’ll probably continue adding to the frame wall as the mood strikes me and switch out some pillows, but other than that I’m totally happy with this comfy room!

What do you think?

Do you like the idea of a play area in the main area, or do you like kids toys to be contained in a room that you don’t have to look at? Do you want to come over and snuggle on my couch? Are you jealous of my snazzy elephant table?

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Jack’s 2nd Birthday & Anxiety

I can’t believe that Jack turned two over the weekend. I  mean, we’ve been training him to say “I’m TWO!” for a month now, but still… suddenly it’s like he’s less of a baby and more of a little boy.

Weird how that happens.

Jack’s actual birthday was on Saturday, but Travis had to work.  Besides me sporadically breaking into the Happy Birthday song throughout the day, we didn’t do much until the evening. That’s when he got his gifts from us – a super cute vegetable set from Plan Toys (from the Citrus Lane shop) and a golf set from Little Tikes that I’ve been hiding since I used a Plum District deal in the fall.

playing with plan toys citrus lane

We also let him have an Elmo cupcake after dinner… which left him quite blue.

 blue face

I had gone back and forth about the idea of having a party for Jack. I really just wanted to celebrate quietly with just Travis, Jack and myself. However, my mom convinced me that I should have something for family to attend, so I tried to keep it as low key as possible with Birthday Cake & Ice Cream at our house.

mommy daddy and jack

I forgot how overwhelmed I get.

My mom, dad and brother came, but my sisters were at school and unable to make the trip. From the in-law side of the family, we had 8 guests (3 were kids). I get along with my in-laws, however we just don’t see them very often so we’ve never really clicked on a personal level.

I’m pretty much a classic introvert when it comes to small group interactions, so it was stressful for me. Just having so many people in my SPACE was difficult. Adding to that anxiety was the problem that Jack skipped his nap, which is a recipe for disaster. He was thrilled by the gifts and other little people to stare at, but a bit uncomfortable with ‘strangers’ picking him up and kissing him.

I was more than a bit uncomfortable with the other kids throwing balls at the wall in my den, beating each other with Jack’s new golf clubs, wrestling loudly in my family room and opening Jack’s gifts so that they could play with them.

I guess it was just ‘boys being boys’ but when you’re not used to that behavior, it can be a bit much. It was obviously a ‘me’ problem though, because Travis was totally fine with everything. I guess I can just be a bit high-strung, especially in situations that are uncomfortable to me.

On top of everything, Ollie was freaking out because of so many people running around and trying to touch him. Travis and I alternated holding him to keep him from biting anyone/throwing up in terror. We tried putting him upstairs in his crate, but his barking and whining was worse than just holding him.

To be honest, I wanted to kick everyone out of our house after an hour.

And I feel terrible about that. I really wish I was the type of person who could just relax and be comfortable in these situations. But I’m not.

Everyone else seemed to have a good time though and the cake and ice cream were delicious. Yes, I had a small piece even though I’m still doing the DietBet. I’m still eating like ME, just a less.

Jack's 2nd birthday party

Jack was totally spoiled with gifts and as soon as everyone left, he decided that ‘MelMo’ (aka Elmo) was the shiznet.

I have also decided that MelMo is the shiznet, because this morning he suddenly came to life and tried to hug Ollie as he walked by… scaring the bejesus out of him!

joules

So tell me, are you an introvert or extrovert? Do you have anxiety when small groups of people come over to your house? Am I a bad person for wanting everyone to leave?

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Before/After: Kitchen

I hope everyone in the path of today’s snowstorm is staying warm and safe. We’ve already gotten about a foot so far and it’s not showing any signs of letting up! As for my readers in warm places like Florida and New Zealand… can I come visit?!

For this week’s Before/After look we will be checking out the room that has seen the MOST change in the past two years… the kitchen!

We almost didn’t buy our house because of the original design issues in the kitchen. The previous owners obviously didn’t like having people over because instead of a dining table, they just had a HUGE island that seated two.

That’s it.

Just an island. There was NO dining room in the house and NO space for a table in the kitchen.

Kitchen B - 2012

Kitchen - 2012

The kitchen was HUGE and there was this random box of an island all lined up under a light on one side of the room. Here, check out another view:

Kitchen C - 2012

I guess it worked for them, but how in the heck was I going to have a Thanksgiving dinner?! Not to mention that there wasn’t really a lot of counter space in the kitchen area to prepare food. It just seemed really odd and didn’t work for us at all.

We really liked the rest of the house though, so the problem of the weird kitchen kept floating around in my mind. UNTIL, I had a brilliant idea.

Let’s MOVE the island!

That’s right. It was like it was Lost all up in here and all our problems were solved by MOVING the ISLAND!

The day after we settled on the house, I sent my dad, husband and brother over while I enjoyed my baby shower. They were instructed to rip that darn island out of the floor, move it and take the granite top to be cut down to size. I also tasked them with painting the room a pretty shade of grayish blue, because for some reason the yellow walls made my pregnant brain want to hurl.

Totally logical.

Moving the island wasn’t a big deal, but it did leave a few holes in the floor – one larger one from the electrical wires and some smaller ones from the nails that they used to secure it. The previous owners must have gone nail crazy, because the entire bottom of the island was ripped apart from the nails once it was moved. Luckily the floor holes were easily covered with the accent rug and the island mess was hid behind some matching trim.

My husband took the island top to a granite shop and had them cut it down to size, since we no longer had the space available for an overhanging seating area. If I remember correctly, to cut it down and re-polish the granite edge, it only cost around $100.

Once we moved in, I made some more changes:

After saving up for a bit, we also purchased a new dishwasher and oven. Not only did the old appliances not match, they were pretty old and weren’t working very well. Our refrigerator is also old, but we don’t plan on replacing it until it dies.

Here is our kitchen and dining area now:

Kitchen B - 2014

Kitchen - 2014

Sorry for the glare, but with so much snow outside it was causing weird bright spots. Also, I was careful to take pictures from very similar angles as the original ones so that you can see what a huge change just a few tweaks made.

Having the island near the rest of the kitchen appliances and countertops ROCKS my world. I use it every single time I cook for preparing ingredients, plating food, laying out snacks for parties, etc. The trash can is hidden inside the island, which is a nice little space-saving bonus.

Moving the island meant we had plenty of room for our kitchen table. It’s from our old house and was a Roomstore find that opens up into a huge square to seat 8 for holidays.

Kitchen C - 2014

The tablecloth is from Target, the brown placemats are from Ikea and the Car’s kiddie placemat is from Walmart. I’m pretty sure the pedestal bowl holding bananas is a Homegoods score. The snazzy orange rug is from West Elm – I looked EVERYWHERE for a similar one for less money, but I pretty much fell in love with this one at first sight. They still sell it on their website and ours pretty much looks brand-new after repeated cleaning from a messy kid. And a messy husband. And I’m pretty sure it’s been hurled on by a dog too. So, I’m going to say it’s worth the money.

I made the little café curtains myself from a pack on sale at Target. I just took one curtain panel, cut it in half and sewed up the edges. Super easy and much cheaper than buying café curtains.

Kitchen E - 2014

I found this table and chairs at a thrift store, but I’m pretty sure it’s the Laitt set from Ikea for just $19.99. I LOVE this table because even if you scribble on the top with crayons it wipes off easily. Also, the mini chairs have fit not only my butt, but my husband’s butt on them.

Oh and you totally have to check out this cute little corner of the kitchen:

Kitchen D - 2014

The kitchen cart is from Target for $149.99, I just didn’t add on the wheels. If you like it, the red version is currently on sale for $74.98. The white KitchenAid mixer was handed down from my sister-in-law – I added the “made with love” decals to it myself. The vase was something that I would gaze lovingly at every time I went to Anthropologie until I received it as a gift for my birthday a couple years ago. The wall art is from Homegoods (large picture) and Ikea (small pictures). So you see, EVERYTHING was done on a budget!

Here’s my last little detail picture. I love the way that there are lots of patterns, but somehow they kind of “go” together.

Kitchen Details - 2014

The yellow bee cookie jar is from Homegoods and I love it, even though I’ve never actually put cookies inside. The yellow giraffe head is from World Market and the calendar was on clearance at Anthropologie when I stopped by on my 24 Hour Date.

What Still Needs to Change?
I hate our refrigerator. The freezer side is really skinny and when you thrust it open to reach inside, the door pops back and smacks you in the side of the head. Also, since it’s so skinny it’s difficult to fit stuff in there. Another drawback is that since the fridge is around 10 years old, they don’t make water filters for it anymore so we don’t use the water or ice feature much. I just can’t pull the trigger to buy a new fridge though because they’re very expensive and technically this one still works… so we wait.

The only other addition I’d like to make is that I really want a china cabinet. I inherited my grandmother’s beautiful china and I’d love a place to store it and show it off. If we found one, I’d put it where the kitchen cart currently lives, or in the opposite corner where we store an extra chair.

What do you think?
Do you want to come over and have a cup of coffee? Do you think the last owners were crazy-pants for having an island in the dining area? Do you want to steal my KitchenAid mixer so that your cookies are also ‘made with love’?

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